Anonymous: i feel like he is pushing me away ever since we talked about it. like he is just being blunt and its hurting me because his the first guy ive ever opened up to due to being self conscious of my body and things :(
ok life lesson on guys: they dont know how to communicate, ever.
idk exactly what he’s thinking but he probably just does not want to give you the wrong impression and thinks he’s some how saving you future hurt by being a douche and distancing himself from you. Be up front with him, ask him why he’s doing this, and reassure him that your happy to wait or just be friends. xx
Anonymous: so me and this guy have been close for a couple o weeks and i asked what was happening between us and we both said we like each other but he is'nt ready for a relationship due to his last on ending badly. what do i do? i really like him
i have to sympathise with the guy on this one, i know how he feels.
don’t push for a relationship with some one who isnt ready. you risk getting yourself hurt and losing what you two have if it doesnt work out. Take it slow, see where it goes. He’s just trying to protect himself, if you stick by his side, eventually he will see that you are worth it. xxx
